What is Dating Violence?
Dating violence is a pattern of behaviors used to control, scare, threaten, or intimidate in a dating relationship. Types of abuse can include physical, emotional/verbal, and sexual abuse. Not all abusers use the same tactics, and tactics can change and get worse over time. While physical violence is frightening and can be lethal, emotional/verbal abuse is the most common type, and often the most harmful.
Being abusive is a CHOICE by an individual. The abuser makes a conscious choice to abuse his/her dating partner. Nothing “makes” a person become abusive. It is not caused by alcohol, drugs, jealousy, stress, or mental illness. When a person abuses, IT IS A CHOICE.
1 in 3 adolescents in the U.S. is a victim of physical, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner, a figure that far exceeds rates of other types of youth violence.
What does dating violence look like?
What can you do?
Common Red Flags of Abusers
Wants the relationship to move quickly
Doesn’t honor partner’s boundaries
Excessively jealous
Accuses partner of cheating
Says one thing and does another
Seems “too good to be true”
Has an entitlement belief/attitude
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